hostapd: improve TITLE for packages

hostapd: improve TITLE for packages

For a few packages, the current TITLE is too long, so it is not
displayed at all when running make menuconfig. Despite, there is
no indication of OpenSSL vs. wolfSSL in the titles.

Thus, this patch adjusts titles to be generally shorter, and adds
the SSL variant to it.

While at it, make things easier by creating a shared definition for
eapol-test like it's done already for all the other flavors.

Signed-off-by: Adrian Schmutzler <freifunk@adrianschmutzler.de>